A few months ago I was in a single rut and was looking for some action. Being in a new city and lacking the usual list of possible hook ups that one acquires, I joined an online dating service. It was interesting; the messages I would get from men were sometimes hilarious, sometimes creepy, and sometimes disturbing. Once I got a message from a married 40 something man who was looking for a ‘young girl’ to play slave in his and his wife’s sex games. After considering the offer I decided against it.
After a few weeks I found a guy who seemed normal. His picture was attractive, he was 26 and worked in the City. We chatted online for a few nights and then decided to meet up. We had discussed the premise of this encounter, we both wanted sex, so the plan was I would drive to meet him, and we would check each other out then decide how the night would go.
So I left my apt, a little nervous because I was driving to some guys house I met online. I got their and we drank a bottle of wine and watched some nondescript movie. I became indecisive- to have sex or not to have sex?
Finally I gave in to his sincere advances. So we made out for a while and then made our way to his bedroom. While undressing he slapped my ass. A little surprised and kinda turned on we continued with the foreplay. Then he slapped my ass again, and again… by this time I was confused. “why does he keep doing that” I thought. To this guy all of foreplay was ass slapping, no neck kissing, nipple teasing, just SLAP.
I figured that if we just got down to the sex he would stop slapping my ass so much. And for a minute it worked. But just as I began to get into it he started up again. He started saying things like “you’ve been bad girl” and slapping my ass. Or “Im gunna make you sore” and then SLAP.
In the end our internet hook up didn’t last. He did make me sore, just not the kind of sore I wanted…
